Deprogramming MAGA Parents Through Book Clubs: A New Path to Understanding
One evening in July, Valeen Heinle realized a novel approach to bridge the growing divide between her political views and those of her Trump-supporting father: a book club.
During a heated argument over the situation in Gaza, Valeen implored her father to explore perspectives beyond his usual sources like Facebook and Newsmax, urging, "Read a book on the history there. I have tons I can suggest." Despite his resistance, she proposed a deal: he'd read three books of her choosing, and she'd attend church for a month.
Her frustration wasn't unique. Stories on Reddit reveal a common theme of strained familial bonds due to political allegiances, manifesting sometimes as estrangements.
Experts, like Steven Hassan, suggest that understanding and patience, rather than confrontation, are more effective in reconnecting with loved ones perceived as indoctrinated. "Stay warm and ask questions," Hassan advises.
Valeen, reflecting on her upbringing in Florida—raised as an Evangelical—chose books she believes might provoke thought yet not feel combative, like Rashid Khalidi's "The Hundred Years’ War on Palestine" and Kristin Kobes Du Mez's "Jesus and John Wayne." These selections aim to challenge without alienating her father.
For Valeen, these efforts are rooted in love and a deep bond with her father, she hopes to rekindle understanding through shared experiences with literature.
